Tony/Zenith & they/ey/zie pronouns. Late 20's, queer intersex tranny, far left, cripplepunk neurodivergent, always tired. Not as chronically online as I used to be. I've been on the hellsite (affectionate) for 13 slutty, slutty years; this corner is my crow's nest of bizarre trinkets,

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help a disabled queer fix their car this pride month (please!!)

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Me (left) and my cute cat Cosmo (right) for attention

I am trying to raise $1500 to fix the transmission on my car, as it’s currently undriveable. I have been out of work since early February due to a drunk driver rear-ending me while he was going 60mph. My family is helping me as much as they can, but it’s going to take months to scrape this kind of money together without help, and until then I’m totally dependent on others being available when I have doctor’s appointments. I haven’t been able to go to physical therapy as often as I’m supposed to because of it, and I’m in a lot more pain because of it. 

DONATION LINKS

Paypal https://paypal.me/tastreg

CashApp https://cash.app/$tastreg

Venmo https://account.venmo.com/u/TonyGo12 

GoFundMe https://gofund.me/df8d4896

(If I happen to get incredibly lucky and get more than my goal, that money will go towards getting a new pair of glasses, since mine have been broken and held together by glue for two years now! TT-TT)

If you can’t give, please consider reblogging this post.

Thank you for reading!I hope you have a lovely day <3

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Awesome update, dad and I have been contacting every mechanic in the area and we found someone who can do the fixes for $900! Hopefully that’s more doable.

$2/$900

hi again. Could really desperately use just $50 at this point. Dealing with all this is making my health issues flare up even worse and I’m in so much pain I can’t focus enough to work and I just overdrafted trying to get medicine and food. Honestly I’m at the point where even just a dollar would really really help.

$2/$900

happy disability pride month, I still need help! Million billion thank yous to the folks who donated

$22/$900

aziraphale-is-a-cat asked:

Please accept this small handful of goat ribs that kept falling off my shelf so I tied them together with sewing thread to make a decorative little fan thing.

Immortal/forever 14 Danny&Dani meeting the justice league and dani ends up saying she's a clone and everyone assumes Danny's a clone too since they're so close in age so now they're trying to figure out the story and genetic Donor while danny&dani are just vibing in the corner watching it all go down bc it's been a couple decades since they ironed all this shit out. They don't need 'closure', but watching the JL tear their hair out over it is kinda funny.

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stealingyourbones:

Oml yes. Imagine the true horror when they realize that not only was Danny the original and didn’t know of the cloning, but he was also a minor. The JL have some people to punch.

Clark and Conner just fucking LIVID, while also being super fucking supportive.

Like, we’re talking fresh cornbread and a gallon of home pressed cider, because that’s the Ultimate Care Clark knows.

The last time Bruce saw Clark pull out the cider was when Jason died. This is a Big Deal for Clark.

Conner debating if it would be rude to ask if Dani has a bellybutton, so he can offer her a place in the No Bellybuttons Club with him and everyone else who’s had a turn in the Lazarus Pitts as a “we support you” gesture, but not wanting to be a weirdo about it.

unbidden-yidden:

unbidden-yidden:

mimesatwork:

unbidden-yidden:

unbidden-yidden:

unbidden-yidden:

Does anyone know if there is a meme that already exists of a seagull going after a french fry that just says “fremch fry” ?

Because Spouse and I both thought we remembered this existing, but multiple google searches and knowyourmeme didn’t turn up anything.

Did we just collectively hallucinate this??

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Indeed! Reblog to make this the next bode!

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ahhhhhhhh please don’t do this to me, we concluded it was just a variant of this

right? right??

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Nope, sorry, but your tags passed peer review 😂

Spousal Unit uses tumblr only vicariously through me, but would like to submit the following for review:

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snuv:

imlizy:

megapope:

humanoidhistory:

“Ohhh, dadgummit!” Jack Schmitt tumbles over into the lunar dust during the Apollo 17 mission to the Moon, December 11-14, 1972.

worth noting that this is the most recent living person to have walked on the moon

fucking cringe

you post cringe on the moon once and then no one ever goes back there

teratocybernetics:

manyblinkinglights:

sreegs:

foone:

A fun thing about computer skills is that as you have more of them, the number of computer problems you have doesn’t go down.

This is because as a beginner, you have troubles because you don’t have much knowledge.

But then you learn a bunch more, and now you’ve got the skills to do a bunch of stuff, so you run into a lot of problems because you’re doing so much stuff, and only an expert could figure them out.

But then one day you are an expert. You can reprogram everything and build new hardware! You understand all the various layers of tech!

And your problems are now legendary. You are trying things no one else has ever tried. You Google them and get zero results, or at best one forum post from 1997. You discover bugs in the silicon of obscure processors. You crash your compiler. Your software gets cited in academic papers because you accidently discovered a new mathematical proof while trying to remote control a vibrator. You can’t use the wifi on your main laptop because you wrote your own uefi implementation and Intel has a bug in their firmware that they haven’t fixed yet, no matter how much you email them. You post on mastodon about your technical issue and the most common replies are names of psychiatric medications. You have written your own OS but there arent many programs for it because no one else understands how they have to write apps as a small federation of coroutine-based microservices. You ask for help and get Pagliacci’d, constantly.

But this is the natural of computer skills: as you know more, your problems don’t get easier, they just get weirder.

you know you’ve made it when you’re googling problems and ending up with 0-9 results

#you don’t actually have to be good to have these problems#you just have to be obsessed with a micro-issue that no one else cares about

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angiethewitch:

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tolovaj:

Sick sick sick of possibility of being fucking recorded every waking second by tiktok obsessed quasi celebs. Video titled something like “Caught him thinking he’s the main character” but it was just a kid wearing headphones, looking out the bus window. Of course it was posted without his knowledge. Stop recording strangers and everything you see, nobody gives a shit and not everyone is happy to be on tiktok or youtube because of a moron with no braincells and an account. What could be a forgettable awkward moment is now permanently there for the victim of lackabrainis infested idiot to get anxious about forever.

Okay, this seems like a relevant thing to share today: I’ve been in this position. Back in college while on that student lifestyle, I somehow ended up with a pretty bad iron deficiency. How bad? I was not only sleeping too much, I was falling asleep everywhere – in class, in the library, in cafes five minutes after drinking coffee. It was terrible. Anyway, during a class I enjoyed, I was sat at a table with a few classmates, and I started falling asleep while taking notes; nodding off, dropping my pen, startling awake and falling asleep again, until my head was on the table. No one seemed to mind, we were all going through it I guess, and my lecturer was nice enough not to make a big deal out of it.

Cut to the next day and I was in the Students Union, when a friend came up to me and told me how funny that video was of me falling asleep in class was. What? I asked her about it, what did she mean, who made the video, and she realised I literally had no clue about it. Kindly, she told me who to talk to and I thanked her. I was already upset, but I knew it wasn’t the messenger’s fault. So, I took to Facebook and messaged the girl who made the video – a girl on my table in the class from before. I asked her about it, and she admitted it right away – she took the video on her phone during class and posted it to her snapchat. That’s how the other girl saw it, not to mention countless others.

Sorting this out was an absolute toil. I felt betrayed and violated that someone would do that while I was obviously not in a position to have any say about it. I lost friendships with the people who took the girl’s side, as if it was no big deal or “funny”. I had to tell the lecturer about it, because let’s face it, that’s a shit thing to allow to happen during class itself, the department moved to be more alert and proactive about restricting phone use in class, and all that girl had to do was give a half-hearted apology. The next semester, she was still openly using her phone in another class we had.

For a long time, I couldn’t trust anyone who held their phone up around me, as if to take photos or video. It would make me so anxious and put me on edge. I never did speak to the people who cosigned her behaviour, who acted like it wasn’t their problem that their bff video-recorded a person in class over their health condition without their consent.

I did eventually grow out of my anxiety around phones, and I resisted the urge to break that girl’s phone, but, I will absolutely bring back that energy if I see someone record a stranger in public without their consent. Take it from someone who’s been that target – if you think it’s okay, you deserve to get your shit wrecked.

I just want to add, in case anyone reads this and isn’t sure – yes, it is absolutely fine to reblog this, and in fact I encourage you to. If testimony from a former target of this behaviour is the one thing that makes it click for anyone thinking of doing it, if it makes them reconsider before potentially ruining a stranger’s life, then my experience will be worth it for me.

Don’t record strangers and put that shit on the Internet or social media without their consent.

a “friend” of mine posted a video of me online once when I was in a psychotic episode. I was actively struggling and she thought it was funny to film me while I was hallucinating and talking to thin air while in an active delusion. I still struggle when people hold their phones up. a few months ago I was out with my friend and I looked really good and I felt really confident and I was just sat having coffee outside when a man walked past obviously fucking filming me. I was immediately reminded of that tiktok thing “pov you’re a girl in a skirt/you’re a girl in public” where girls would show men filming them and staring at them. i went from feeling cool and confident to feeling like public property. and I remembered being filmed while in an episode and got paranoid my friend wasn’t real and this man was filming me because I was the haha funny crazy person talking to an empty chair because that had fucking happened to me before.

you film that homeless man laughing to himself and talking to an empty space? yeah he’s probably psychotic. you film someone having a meltdown and screaming at nothing? probably also psychotic. you are taking advantage of someone’s most vulnerable state and you think its funny and you want to get Internet clout for filming them. youre a piece of shit if you do that. I went from feeling safe around my old friend, feeling unjudged, feeling supported, to feeling used and unsafe and judged.

this shit overwhelmingly affects disabled, sick and mentally ill people. cut it the fuck out. the next time you think it would be funny to film the weird old lady talking to the trees, take a second and consider: would you like to have your most vulnerable moments immortalised on camera?

As an ethnographer, where to fucking start with this? Please don’t do it, support it, laugh at it, share it. Extreme dehumanisation - of filmer and filmed.

bakurapika:

rowark:

PSA, as we enter a recession (or are already in one, depending on who you ask)…

now is NOT the time to join a multilevel marketing business.

it’s never the time (because they’re pyramid schemes) but now is ESPECIALLY not the time, and they’re gonna be out in full force trying to recruit people, especially if we start seeing widespread lay offs

If someone wants to offer you a “job opportunity” but won’t tell you the name of the company, RUN

if a company requires you to purchase a starter kit, FUCKING RUN

if someone invites you to an “opportunity call” or otherwise pitches this “opportunity” to you, and it’s just a whole bunch of love-bombing and motivational speaking, RUN

if you cannot “rank up” in the company without recruiting more people to your team (aka downline), RUN

if you already joined one, cut your losses and quit now. seriously

if your friends/family join them, do not buy from them, even if it’s just to support them… buying from people who join MLMs gives them false confidence that they will succeed, and it keeps them in longer, and ultimately they will lose more money, and probably damage a lot of their relationships along the way

99% of people either make no money, or worse, LOSE money, in multilevel marketing. They’re scams and commercial cults and the “recession proof industry” marketing campaigns are already well underway, especially in MLMs that are currently on the brink of collapse (like Monat)

don’t be fooled. there is no opportunity. it’s not a job. it’s a scam

(also, watch out for their alternate names… network marketing and social selling are just synonyms for multilevel marketing.)

Eta: if you’re not sure if a company is an MLM, Google it. There’s an entire database online for this. Search “is [X] an mlm” and if it is, you’ll find a wealth of information about how their scams work.

thank you for coming to my ted talk

When I was sending out tons of applications, I was contacted by a company for an interview. I incorrectly assumed that they one of the dozens of companies I applied to. It was only my last-minute research before the interview that made me realize what was happening. The interview was also unexpectedly a group “interview.” I went on camera and politely said to everyone that I didn’t plan to work for a multi level marketing scheme and would prefer to pursue genuine job offers (or something to that effect) to hopefully warn others. I was of course told that it wasn’t an MLM and was immediately booted off the call.

I’m sharing because googling the company was not enough. It was supposedly a newer company, so not much information existed outside of their own website. But their website was very vague and used general businessy terms to describe what they did, with a lot of stock images and not much information on the people involved.

I had a hunch and took one sentence from their website, and googled it in quotes (for example, googling the phrase “We are changemakers who keep up with the fast pace of industry” with quotes included). I found two results - the current company, and a different company website with the exact same phrase. The second website was deleted, but Google still had it archived for search results.

I googled the name of the second company and discovered a reddit thread for a nearby major city, which called this company out as a scam/MLM and listed their previous business names! They seriously moved from town to town and changed their names completely. I added the new business name to the list.

But this was just my last-minute check immediately before the interview. I’m not sure that everyone would think to do the same. By all appearances, this was a normal company just getting started, hence the lack of reviews. (Some legitimate businesses don’t interact with the public much and so aren’t reviewed often, and may not be listed on Glassdoor if they are smaller or were created within the last couple years.)

As a non-expert, based on this experience, I would just suggest these red flags:

  • The corporate website not having a section titled “Who We Are,” “Board of Directors,” “Staff,” or otherwise providing contact information for the owner/CEO (and other leadership positions if it is not a startup). These people will not look like models. If they do, search the image on Google or another reverse-image-search engine to see if it is a stock image.
  • All the images on the site being stock photos, showing smiling people in suits. Legitimate businesses will usually have at least an image of their physical location, plus the aforementioned people in leadership.
  • The website should tell you exactly what the company does. This may be in the mission statement or their “About” page. This may include vague buzzwordy phrases, but will also have at least something specific about why the company exists.
  • Keep a list of everywhere you apply. This can be a personal list, or just using Indeed/etc that tell you your application history (and send you an email when you apply, which you can keep in a folder for reference). When you get an interview, always check if you have actually applied. It’s not impossible to be offered an interview based on employers finding your public resume, but it is important information to have. Why is the company sending out unsolicited offers? Why do they not have existing applicants? Legitimate companies will probably instead invite you to apply to a pre-existing job listing, not skip to scheduling an interview.
  • If the interview is a group interview when you were lead to expect an individual interview, it’s not a good sign.
  • If the job position mentions sales or recruitment, unless you have been specifically searching for these jobs, be careful. (Even “legitimate” jobs may overly rely on sales commissions, but I personally expect a promised salary plus commissions.)